Do I want Sobriety?

TLC is a good place to be if your goal is recovery.  And it's a terrible place to be if it's not.

This came up for me a while back when I got feedback about former clients who had left.

One had left a TLC halfway house because he couldn't use prescribed painkillers.  But eventually he was able to find a house where prescription drugs weren't a problem.

Soon though, he wanted to return.  It seems everyone at his new place was using something, either alcohol or drugs.  Management was absent.  Police showed up once in a while. People stole from him.   And people threatened him.

Another report came from a program where several former clients had gone after relapsing at TLC.

At that program pretty much anything goes. As long as they don't create problems and pay their rent residents do what they want.  Drink.  Use drugs. Whatever.

Over the past 32 years I've seen this scenario over and over.  Someone starts a halfway house, thinking it's an easy way to earn a living.

Then reality sets in: do I want to help addicts get clean?  Or do I just want to turn a quick buck?

Those who choose the quick profit option don't last.  Because before long word gets around. And the only people who go there are those wanting to drink or drug.  And they're a pretty unreliable bunch when it comes to paying their bills.  Soon the place folds.

Eventually, those who are serious come back to TLC because they know if they follow our guidelines they'll stay clean.

It's just kind of sad to see them take these detours.  But relapse is sometimes an educational part of the process.

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