Sometimes we give clients projects to help them get out of themselves. This usually works well with those who are depressed. Or those who have a difficult time relating to others.
For example, we assigned a client last week to put together a weekend barbecue. He had to figure out all the details: how many steaks. How many paper plates, knives and forks. The condiments. How much charcoal. Then he had to find a ride to the store to shop.
When I saw him late Sunday he was full of enthusiasm. Here's a man who's been pretty much shut down with depression all of a sudden relating with others. And I believe he's gotten a sense of accomplishment from doing this.
For the past several weeks we've assigned different clients to plan weekend activities. So far, we've had trips to the zoo. Trips to the bowling alley. Miniature golf. Roller derby. All have come off successfully. And clients are developing a sense of community.
Mindful gardening is another project that kicked off this weekend. Late Sunday evening we drove by the garden as they were quitting for the day. For three and a half hours the six or so members of that class prepared the soil and planted under the supervision of the instructor.
All of these projects are ancillary to our outpatient treatment program. But they are important because they help clients communicate better. They learn they can have fun in recovery and accomplish small goals at the same time.
More on this subject later.
