We often get calls from parents. They're calling recovery programs, looking for addicts that have fallen off the radar.
Some say they haven't seen their child in a few months. But others haven't seen them for ten years or more.
Maybe a family member is in poor health and they want to reconcile with their child. Or at least talk to them one last time. There are a lot of reasons.
Sometimes they'll say they've checked with the prisons and hospitals. But have had no luck. They're hoping we can help.
Usually we'll take the name of the person they're looking for. Then, if they're with us, we'll pass the message to them.
Those who call - or show up - always seem to be hurting. Their voices sometimes crack with emotion. One can feel the pain in their voices.
Some take the time to talk about their child's addiction. About how he or she was once a 4.0 student or a star athlete. Until drugs or alcohol derailed their lives. They appreciate the moments we spend listening to them.
If we could record these calls and play them back in our group sessions it might help some of us. We would realize the devastation our using brings into the lives of those close to us.
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