Apparently she wasn't okay with giving us information about her drug and alcohol history. She felt the intake process was "invasive."
Her attitude is characteristic of some of us before we get clean. Many of us get to recovery because others might be pushing us. Because we're doing the world a favor we're not willing to put up with frustration of any kind.
My suspicion is that this woman hasn't reached bottom yet, hasn't had enough pain. Because when we're hurting and someone reaches out with free help we take it. And without question.
Hopefully she'll get enough pain to bring her into recovery before she gets into serious trouble.