It's
sometimes sad when I see karma play out in someone's life. I recently learned
of a professional acquaintance who lost his credentials over unprofessional and
unethical behavior.
The
loss of his licenses came as no surprise. He’d been under investigation by the
state for a few years over questionable conduct. He had a history of treating people badly,
both peers and those he considered beneath him. He had a habit of berating
others in public and alienating his employees. It was uncomfortable to be around him for long because of his anger.
And
one time he got so out of control he was arrested for assault. On
this occasion he was censured by the licensing board for his behavior. However,
he didn’t change because of his knack
for rationalizing his behavior and blaming others.
Because
this person had insulted and abused me on occasion I thought I’d feel good when he finally had
his comeuppance. But that isn't the way I felt when I heard about him losing
his ability to make a living, and probably his home and business. I felt
sadness.
I
guess I feel this way because I know he has the ability to achieve
whatever he wants. But he's let his psychological issues and lack of self-esteem
undermine his success.
I
believe we live in a world of bounty, that God wants us to be happy. And I'm not one who’s willing to sabotage
that because of personal idiosyncrasies.
Although
this person has finally suffered the consequences of his behavior, it may be
the lesson he needs to look at himself. Or he can sink further into
bitterness and anger. I believe that nothing happens on God's earth by mistake
or accident. When we pay a price for our bad behavior I believe God’s teaching
us another lesson.
Even
though I was hurt by this person I find no satisfaction in his downfall – even
though I thought I would.
Actually,
it's my hope that one day he put his life back together and live up to his
potential.
This was written nicely. It hit my heart. Thanks for the great insight. Your friend, Sally
ReplyDeleteThank you Sally. I appreciate your messages.
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