Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Differences

A newcomer sharing at a 12-step meeting says, with a hint of pride in his voice, that before he got sober all he drank was beer. He quit drinking liquor and stronger beverages because they got him in trouble.

Then he speaks of a friend who drinks whiskey. The man has had DUI's. He's lost jobs. He has health problems.

As I listen I get the impression that the speaker believes one kind of alcohol is superior to another.

And that may be true for so-called normal drinkers. Some are connoisseurs of fine wine or aged whiskey - things they drink in moderation.

But for alcoholics like me, what we drank made no difference. If it has alcohol in it it's a deadly poison. We should avoid any alcoholic beverage because it could kill us.

Anyway, the more important thing is how much we are like the others in the rooms - not how we're different. When we feel we're different we might think the rules don't apply to us. And that's dangerous for someone like me.

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