A few weeks ago a man called me
from a Southern state to ask about coming to TLC. He hadn’t drunk for
a few weeks, but he knew he needed time in a sober setting if he was going to
remain sober.
After I told him about the program
he said he’d wrap up his affairs and be in Arizona by the end of the
month. And sure enough, he called me
from the Greyhound bus this evening to tell me he’d be in Mesa on Monday
morning.
He also told me that if had
money with him he would have gotten drunk already because he’d had a painful
argument with his wife before he left for the bus station. He was upset about
the altercation to the point that he almost changed his mind about coming.
However, he said that his desire to remain sober was still in place and he was
determined to get to Arizona to try to change his life. We’ll find out next week how strong his
resolve really is.
His situation illustrates some
of the pitfalls confronting those in early recovery. So often family issues,
finances, and other stressors will offer what seems to be a good excuse to kill
the pain with our drug of choice.
I'm thankful I avoided these excuses and have been blessed with long term sobriety.
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