Someone
asked why I didn't force a client – who’d told an obvious lie – to admit his lie.
While it
may be a philosophical difference between me and the person who asked the
question, reality is I don't care whether he lies. I know he's lying. He knows
he's lying. And most of the people around him know he's lying.
The idea
that I'm going to make him admit he's a liar won't – in my opinion help anyone. And my ego doesn't require that he admit his lie.
I believe
life teaches us lessons. Eventually this
client will learn that lies don't improve his life – and probably will complicate
it. He may learn that lies we tell others are one thing. But the lies that are hard to escape are the ones we tell ourselves.
Time will
tell.
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