To succeed in the 12 step programs we need to do only one thing perfectly. And that is to not use alcohol or drugs. At its most fundamental it's defined as staying clean and sober. And we start by taking the first step.
But to enjoy the real fruits of the program we must do more.
For example, as we work the fourth step we look deeply into ourselves. We put our behavior under a microscope. We discover where we did harm. Where we were selfish and self centered. How we were responsible for the calamities we blamed on others.
This step can be challenging. It's one where many newcomers stumble because it's painful to look at ourselves. But if they get through this one and the next they have a new perspective.
The remainder of the steps take us yet deeper into knowing ourselves. That's when we start experiencing the bliss of serenity and peace.
But as long as we live we don't achieve perfection. The closest we come is that we learn to enjoy our journey along the path of recovery.
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